Welcome to this new day, Hero!
You are in the process of becoming a role model to people around you
Showing what’s possible when you honor your potential and actualize it instead of wasting on porn and other petty things
You are a role model of being porn-free for me
And today, I want to talk about other role models that inspire me to stay porn-free
The first one is Steve Jobs
His ex-girlfriend said:
“Our birth control method up to that point was Steve’s coitus interruptus, also called the pull-out method, which for him was about his conserving his energy for work.
He didn’t want to climax to build “power and wealth by conserving [his] vital energies.”
What did he do with that sexual energy?
Well, quite a few things
He created a company that’s worth 1 trillion dollars—5% of the GDP of the United States
And more importantly, he changed technology forever
Now this thing in our pocket has more computing power than a supercomputer 30 years ago
Another role model is Napoleon Hill
He is the author of Think and Grow Rich — the number one personal development book of all times
There is a whole chapter in that book called “The Mystery of Sex: Transmutation.”
Transmutation is about redirecting the energy from powerful sexual urges into other creative pursuits
Exactly what we are doing here
That’s what he said:
“Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires”.
When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times.
So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it.
When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc., which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or in any other profession or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches.”
And oh boy did he walk his talk
He is the most well-known personal development author
He was able to put tons of work into his books
He basically created the entire self-help industry
All of this while transmuting sexual energy
Not masturbating
Not watching porn
Also, many athletes talked about the power of conserving sexual energy
One of them is Muhammad Ali
He would reportedly go up to 2 months without orgasm in preparation for a fight.
Retention prior to a fight, in fact, has been standard operating procedure among many boxers.
Of course!
Can you imagine a boxer who ejaculates to porn the night before a fight
And then wants into the ring with a huge ejaculation hangover
Another boxer is Mike Tyson who practiced semen retention for 5 years when he was at his peak.
Oh, here’s another great role model
The father of biohacking Dave Asprey made an experiment—30 days of no ejaculation
He writes about it in his book Game Changers
And reports noticeable benefits
He enjoyed sex more
He felt more energy
He noticed more attention from women
Even though he doesn’t have an explanation for that last item
Magic, right?
And he also tells a story of an entrepreneur who made a deal with his wife
He abstained from ejaculation until he made $250,000 in one month
Well, now you might be saying
These are top athletes or entrepreneurs with tons of willpower and so on
I am not like that
Wait, here’s an example
An average guy who has been porn-free for 8+ years
He’s no different than you
He has the same willpower
He has similar challenges
Same urges to watch porn
That’s me
After all, my initials are RM
Role Model
I am not there yet — not by a long shot
But this is who I want to be
For my family, friends, clients, and followers
I always hated porn but I used to watch it anyway
I was able to free myself from it
And live a porn-free and regret-free life
The previous version of my life – porn-full and regretful – was hell
There’s no way I am going back there
I don’t pollute my mind with pornography anymore
I have a healthy intimate relationship
I am engaged in my social life
I feel in charge of my life
This is my Hero’s Journey
And I am so happy I am joined by another human being on this journey
It’s my pleasure to walk this path together with you
And give you a little bit of guidance
Just a little bit
That’s all you need
In your heart, you already know that porn-watching is not sustainable
Just like doing cocaine to escape problems
Be a role model for people around you
And be my hero
A hero right here
Stay porn-free today
And make me proud of you tomorrow