Role models

Welcome to this new day, Hero!

You are in the process of becoming a role model to people around you

Showing what’s possible when you honor your potential and actualize it instead of wasting on porn and other petty things

You are a role model of being porn-free for me

And today, I want to talk about other role models that inspire me to stay porn-free

The first one is Steve Jobs

His ex-girlfriend said:

“Our birth control method up to that point was Steve’s coitus interruptus, also called the pull-out method, which for him was about his conserving his energy for work.

He didn’t want to climax to build “power and wealth by conserving [his] vital energies.”

What did he do with that sexual energy?

Well, quite a few things

He created a company that’s worth 1 trillion dollars—5% of the GDP of the United States

And more importantly, he changed technology forever

Now this thing in our pocket has more computing power than a supercomputer 30 years ago

Another role model is Napoleon Hill

He is the author of Think and Grow Rich — the number one personal development book of all times

There is a whole chapter in that book called “The Mystery of Sex: Transmutation.”

Transmutation is about redirecting the energy from powerful sexual urges into other creative pursuits

Exactly what we are doing here

That’s what he said:

“Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires”.

When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times.

So strong and impelling is the desire for sexual contact that men freely run the risk of life and reputation to indulge it.

When harnessed, and redirected along other lines, this motivating force maintains all of its attributes of keenness of imagination, courage, etc., which may be used as powerful creative forces in literature, art, or in any other profession or calling, including, of course, the accumulation of riches.”

And oh boy did he walk his talk

He is the most well-known personal development author

He was able to put tons of work into his books

He basically created the entire self-help industry

All of this while transmuting sexual energy

Not masturbating

Not watching porn

Also, many athletes talked about the power of conserving sexual energy

One of them is Muhammad Ali

He would reportedly go up to 2 months without orgasm in preparation for a fight.

Retention prior to a fight, in fact, has been standard operating procedure among many boxers.

Of course!

Can you imagine a boxer who ejaculates to porn the night before a fight

And then wants into the ring with a huge ejaculation hangover

Another boxer is Mike Tyson who practiced semen retention for 5 years when he was at his peak.

Oh, here’s another great role model

The father of biohacking Dave Asprey made an experiment—30 days of no ejaculation

He writes about it in his book Game Changers

And reports noticeable benefits

He enjoyed sex more

He felt more energy

He noticed more attention from women

Even though he doesn’t have an explanation for that last item

Magic, right?

And he also tells a story of an entrepreneur who made a deal with his wife

He abstained from ejaculation until he made $250,000 in one month

Well, now you might be saying

These are top athletes or entrepreneurs with tons of willpower and so on

I am not like that

Wait, here’s an example

An average guy who has been porn-free for 8+ years

He’s no different than you

He has the same willpower

He has similar challenges

Same urges to watch porn

That’s me

After all, my initials are RM

Role Model

I am not there yet — not by a long shot

But this is who I want to be

For my family, friends, clients, and followers

I always hated porn but I used to watch it anyway

I was able to free myself from it

And live a porn-free and regret-free life

The previous version of my life – porn-full and regretful – was hell

There’s no way I am going back there

I don’t pollute my mind with pornography anymore

I have a healthy intimate relationship

I am engaged in my social life

I feel in charge of my life

This is my Hero’s Journey

And I am so happy I am joined by another human being on this journey

It’s my pleasure to walk this path together with you

And give you a little bit of guidance

Just a little bit

That’s all you need

In your heart, you already know that porn-watching is not sustainable

Just like doing cocaine to escape problems

Be a role model for people around you

And be my hero

A hero right here

Stay porn-free today

And make me proud of you tomorrow